Eye of the Beholder
Attraction is a personal thing, a private thing, between two people. Just like "Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder", attraction is a chemical, physical and emotional thing. Attraction happens when you first "notice" a member of the opposite sex. This can happen on first meeting or contact or after knowing some one for 10 years. It is a mental and chemical magic rolled up in a barrel of excitement.
I find a man sexy and attractive who is confident and intelligent. I like gentlemen with wicked wits who can show me just a peek of naughtiness. An attractive man to me is one who can discuss current events and give opinion that does not include what someone else had said, a man who can think for himself cos the number one sexual organ is, afterall, the brain.
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