Monday, January 28, 2008

torn

Alot of people say that the best relationships start out from friendship. I agree but when you are somehow stuck in limbo between friends and being romantically involved, it sucks. For a guy, you would feel your way through not knowing if pursuing the relationship would ruin your friendship or bring you to the next level and when you are girl (at least in our part of the world), you would wait. And if you are anything like me, you would think ... alot too. Does he like me? Is this just me? Are his actions his way of saying he likes me or that we are just good friends? You are enjoying that "high" experience when together and keeping your feelings in check but somehow your logical and emotional selves are battling and you are praying that he saves you from it. You want to know where you stand and where you are headed from this point onwards but you are hoping that wherever it is you are going, you wont 't get hurt.

So what do you do when you are in that limbo? Do you step back and distance yourself with the chance that you are letting go of something that might be special or do you hold on to that glimmer of hope, however faint, with the risk that you will get hurt?

I, for one, have no answers. These are questions I, myself ask. All I know is that love poses both great rewards and immense pain. Nobody said it was easy but nonetheless, it is a path everyone would like to take whether we admit to it or not.

" ... and if I could hold on
through the tears and the laughter
would it be beautiful
or just a beautiful disaster? ... "



Moon/51

7 Comments:

Blogger dreamie said...

I would certainly go accordingly with the feel...

January 28, 2008 5:49 pm

 
Blogger Kenny Ng said...

It's all about chemistry & feel. If you feel he is the one, don't give up your hope, go for it!

January 29, 2008 9:02 pm

 
Blogger W_W_H said...

beleive in urself... let ur heart takes wherever u wanna go.........

January 30, 2008 3:53 am

 
Blogger Kenny Ng said...

Gong Hei Fatt Choi to u all

February 06, 2008 11:29 pm

 
Blogger Cocka Doodle said...

Here's wishing you & your loved ones a Happy & Prosperous Lunar New Year! Gung xi fa cai!!

May you find the love of your life in the year of the rat! If kenot find, come look for me. ;p

February 08, 2008 2:37 am

 
Blogger dreamie said...

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February 14, 2008 12:06 am

 
Blogger dreamie said...

Aloha 3 lengluis,
*San Nin Fai Lok* and have a happy verli laaaam time tomorrow .. hahaha

February 14, 2008 12:13 am

 

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