Wednesday, May 17, 2006


Crushes ... many of us have them yet few of us are keen to openly talk about them. Be it the offfice hunk we adore from afar, an ardent fantasy guy, a fictional character we have invented, a famous person or celebrity, or heaven forbid, someone who is known to us in real life; having a crush on someone unattainable is far more common than we think.

Romantic crushes that sweeps us off our feet and into our dream zone plays a pivotal role throughout our lives. They serve a specific purpose, providing us with the means to safely dream about someone else in the safety and comfort of our minds.

If I were to list and analyse my crushes todate (no, I'm not telling!!), I would see no consistency except for one factor: briefness. They are replaceable and they have a use by date, as soon as a more worthy person comes along.

This reflection has taught me an invaluable lesson in reality. Regardless of any emotional attachment, we are not immune from feeling an unexplained attraction for another person and making them our unattainable objects of desire.



Anonymous gary said...

when in love, all logic and caution are thrown out of the windows

May 19, 2006 8:52 am

Blogger Candid said...

Hey moon, don't you think life will be very dull if we don't hv crushes every now and then? Who is the object of your desire now? Come on, tell me......

May 19, 2006 1:12 pm

Anonymous evelyn said...

I had this kind of unexplainable attractions too ....all these splendour moments make beautiful memories.

May 19, 2006 1:33 pm

Anonymous Anonymous said...

this song comes to mind...
"Feelings ...nothing more than FEELINGs,
Feelings of love.....

May 20, 2006 12:25 am

Blogger Cocka Doodle said...

I am not 'unattainable'.
You just got to try harder. LOL

May 21, 2006 2:04 pm

Blogger sun,moon&star said...

gary: yeah, like gazing into each other's eyes as if there is no tomorrow.

candid: girl, that is why we need to day dream and fantasize every now and then to keep our mind occupied otherwise can go rusty you know.

evelyn: you feel it too? nice leh .. hahaha

anonymous: hmmmmm i love that song.

cocka: Attainable or unattainable, you are out of my reach.

May 22, 2006 10:57 am


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